It’s said you can tell where a person is in life by looking at a list of the things he or she is reading. Want to take a guess where my mind’s been lately?
I have to admit, I haven’t been reading much. It suddenly feels like my life’s exploded with to-do lists, both of the professional and the personal sort (not that I’m complaining) and I just can’t find enough time in my day (or night!) to sit down for an hour with a book. I, the former insomniac, now fall asleep within minutes of my head hitting the pillow as if I’ve been running a marathon all day. That said, I’ve read 95 or so books so far this year so it could be that they’ve just not registered or stayed with me as much as I’d have hoped they would have.
Home by Manju Kapur: This is not my usual fare, but I enjoyed it nonetheless. The story is about a traditional Indian family living in Karol Bagh in Delhi, three generations to one household and how as times are changing, the family dynamics too are caught in the struggle between tradition and modernity, the older generation and the new one. There’s a lot several Indians will identify with in here, even if not one hundred per cent, then bits of it. I loved that the setting is Delhi, giving it to me, even more a feel of “home.” I was saying to a friend the other day how we grew up reading books that were not set in our cities and countries and maybe because of that we’ve fallen so much in love with foreign locales and cultures. But it’s refreshing now to read books set in my own country and city, that have parallels to my own life and times. I think I’ll be picking up the rest of Kapur’s work as well (which, I’m embarassed to say, I’ve owned for years but haven’t gotten around to reading yet).
How She Really Does It: Secrets of Successful Stay-at-Work Moms by Wendy Sachs: I suppose it’s fairly obvious why I wanted to read this book, especially after the great freakout of 2011, in which I moaned to my husband that “My life is OVER!” and “I CAN’T do this!” among other variations. I’m happy to report that this book actually did help tremendously, giving me realistic expectations and showing me that despite the best-intentioned advice of the people around me, I have to find my own way and that their experiences aren’t necessarily going to be my own. Most importantly, that if I want something badly enough, even if it’s having a rocking family and a rocking career simultaneously, there’s absolutely no reason it can’t be done. Others have done it, too. This book is proof.
The Listerdale Mystery, The Moving Finger, and The Big Four by Agatha Christie: In my defense, I’m sick and it’s still raining.
Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris, Getting Things Done by David Allen and Road to Wealth by Suze Orman: These were all audiobooks and audiobooks that I’ve listened to before. I was going for daily walks and I actually prefer to listen to books rather than music so this made up the fare.
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert T. Kiyosaki with Sharon L. Lechter, CPA: I first read this book when I was 23 years old and found that the principles outlined in the book were exactly what my father had been teaching me since I was ten years old. I vowed never to invest in stocks or real estate unless I fully understood the market and could take responsibility for my own actions, so until recently, I never really took any steps in the right direction despite having sound principles to fall back on. I’m a big believer that books come into your life when you need them or are ready for them, so I don’t think it’s any coincidence that I’ve ended up reading this again now.
Harvesting the Heart by Jodi Picoult: This is another one of those “will come into your life when you need it” books. It’s come at the right time for me for several reasons: My own novel is about mother-daughter relationships (though in a very different context) and I was beginning to doubt whether that can work, and I’m pregnant with my first child and have doubted my capabilities endlessly (and perhaps needlessly). This is one of Picoult’s early works, her second novel in fact, and while it shares the same style as her other works, the subject of the book was a bit of a surprise because it’s so different from what we expect of her now. I love her newer work, but I loved this one also.







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