Archive for ◊ February, 2008 ◊

29 Feb 2008 Accra So Far

Okay, so you’re dying to know more about my life in Ghana, yeah?

I’ll make you a list.

1. Accra reminds me of India in many ways. It’s a lot less developed for sure, but parts of the culture, the way people function, the aspirations remind me very much of people in India. In fact, there are streets in Accra where I can just go stand and pretend I’m in New Delhi.

2. People are extremely helpful. They go out of their way to make you feel comfortable and settled in. They’re also very friendly. Strangers on buses and on the street wish each other “Good Morning” as if they’ve known each other for ages.

3. When I arrived, Accra was all dressed up. People seemed to be welcoming me to their country with flags, posters and clean streets. “Don’t flatter yourself,” my local friend said to me a day after my arrival. “It’s because Bush is visiting Ghana tomorrow.” Well, if that’s what they’d like to believe.

4. Traffic was a mess the day the American President actually did arrive. I got nothing done.

5. My first day in Ghana was spent in a part of the city that’s near the outskirts and has a number of estates. People seem affluent, but the area itself is under-developed– dirt roads, no communication, no transportation. I walked two miles just so that I could get a SIM card for my phone.

6. Since I’m not African, and don’t look it, I get charged exorbitant prices for everything. However, and here’s the irony, people here tend to mostly regard me less as a foreigner, and more as one of their own. This is because I’m Indian, I’m told. They love Indians here.

7. On my first night out with local friends, they keep pointing out Indians to me “1 Indian, 2 Indians, 3 Indians…” This is, they tell me, so that I “won’t feel so alone.”

28 Feb 2008 A Few Words on Confidence

The first time I was published in Chicken Soup for the Soul, I wasn’t quite proud of the essay that got selected. I mean, I liked it, but it wasn’t my best work. So I figured, hey, I could write for them pretty often. They haven’t even seen my best yet. Unfortunately, that’s still my only clip with them.

Over-confidence is never good.

Fast forward a couple of years. A very tough-to-break-into and one of my favorite magazines sent me on assignment. Came back, wrote the article in record speed and stalled on sending it in. My confidence was so low that my photographer actually had to read it out loud to convince me that it worked. The editor asked me to write for them again, and again… but I always felt that maybe they weren’t so hot after all. Must not get too many submissions, I thought. UNTIL… I heard from a very successful freelancer whose queries had been rejected dozens of times. Not only that, the only time she came close to writing for them was when she submitted an assigned article, and the editor rejected it because it didn’t match the voice of the magazine. Later, I heard from another freelancer who’d been trying them for years with no luck and wanted to know how I pulled it off.

No confidence is never good either.

27 Feb 2008 Increasing Your Productivity

If you’re like me– and you know you are– you’re spending way too much time on the computer. More time than you should be, and it’s eating up time that you should be spending on actual work or that thing called, you know, enjoying yourself!

I’ve been trying to implement the following in my routine. See if they can work for you as well.

1. Cut down on the number of blogs you read. Substantially. I’m now subscribed to about a hundred. Most of them are for news, some of them are other writers I think I can learn from, and others are those that are good for laughs or those that I enjoy. If I add a new blog to my list, one must go. There’s only so much time I have in my day, and I’ve decided I simply can’t read everyone’s opinion on everything no matter how interesting it may be.

2. Speaking of blogs, you know how some people do the I’ll-comment-on-her-blog-and-she’ll-comment-on-mine thing? It’s silly. It’s a waste of time. And it’s nothing more than a popularity contest which will only serve to stroke your ego (ooh, I got five comments!) Comment on other people’s blogs, but not if your only aim is to bring readers to your own non-revenue-generating blog. Focus more on producing salable work instead.

3. Buy a diary. A paper one. No fancy-shmancy Internet thingies will do. Real paper, real pen. Write down five things you’ll do tomorrow (workwise). Tomorrow, you do them. If you finish those five things, go play. Have a bit of fun, you productive freelancer, you! If you’re not done, take those things that are left, and put them on tomorrow’s list. BUT– and this is the most important part of all– tomorrow’s list should have no more than five tasks either. Do this every day. Five things a day, every day. When you’re done, you’re done.

4. Reply to e-mails only once or twice a day. Set aside one hour for only e-mails and get them done. There’s no point in replying to stuff as soon as it arrives, even if it’s from an editor. It can wait. Everyone can wait. I reply to emails once every morning, and I try to get some done before I finish for the day. Between those points, I’m typically unavailable, though people can reach me on IM or on the phone.

5. Take some risks– financially, creatively, personally. You know what that does? It motivates you. It pushes you beyond mediocrity. And it puts you in a position where you need to succeed in order to survive. It’s not such a bad place to be for a creative person. It’s not completely pleasant either, but it gets stuff done.

26 Feb 2008 In Transit

My flight from India to Ethiopia, and then to Ghana was for lack of a better word… eh. There were delays, there were unconfirmed and canceled tickets (*groan*), and there was turbulence. BUT, there were also some amazingly helpful and fantastic people.

There was the twenty-something guy going to Paris, who let me get ahead in line during security check, because he said his company was paying for his ticket, and I had more to lose if I missed my flight. There was the man sitting next to me, who whenever I’d open my eyes during the never-ending turbulence would pat my head and say, “Not over yet, go back to sleep.” There was the woman from Abidjan who insisted I go visit her and said that she comes to Accra often and would love to come see me during my stay here. And there was the guy from United Nations, who as soon as the plane touched Ghanaian ground, declared, “She has made it, ladies and gentlemen. The Indian lady has officially arrived in Africa!”

I have a phone and a home now. By the time you read this, I’ll have Internet as well. I’m all set to work.

25 Feb 2008 He’s Not an Alcoholic (Voices of Alcoholism, April 08)

I have an essay in the book Voices of Alcoholism, which will be available in all major bookstores in America, as well as online. I have to say though, working with LaChance Publishing has been an extremely wonderful experience. They’re prompt, courteous, and you can check out the quality of their books for yourself.

Profits from the sale of the books will go towards The Healing Project.

24 Feb 2008 “I’m Moving to Ghana”

Best reactions:

“Oh my God! They have the best football team ever!” (Yeah, only a guy could say this.)

“Noooo! Africa is so dangerous. All African countries are. I have a friend in Laos who says he can’t leave his home after 5 p.m.” (We know who didn’t attend geography classes.)

“Why not America?” (Because they don’t give visas to lowly journos like me dah-ling.)

“What, now there’s no child trafficking in India for you to write about?” (I’m still thinking of an answer for that one.)

“… the only nice girl I know in Delhi is sodding off to Africa though, damn it. Life sucks!” (I really really like this person :D)